You Aren’t Broken. You’re Just Stuck in a Story That Isn't Yours.​
​Burnout and anxiety aren't the problem—they're the symptoms of a deep fear of not belonging. I provide the direct coaching you need to break the cycle of "earning" your worth. Reclaim your sense of self and feel truly free in just three months.
Break the Loop. Reclaim Your Sense of Self.
​You want more freedom, choice, meaning, and purpose — but a sea of responsibilities and constant noise can make it hard to hear yourself clearly. You're likely stuck in a story that doesn't belong to you anymore. It's time to listen inward with honest reflection.
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Unlock Your Free Identity Audit Tool & 45-Min complementary Strategy Session (valued at £149)
And reconnect with your values, untangle your decision-making style, and take your first step toward clarity and alignment
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This work is about clarity, not performance.
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I'm Ben, a life coach, financial coach, and facilitator who helps high-performers slow down, reflect, and finally break the loops of people-pleasing and self-sabotage.
Whether you’re navigating a career change, feeling disconnected from your purpose, or tired of living with financial heaviness, this is a safe space for honest reflection.
My coaching approach blends grounded conversation, practical tools, and psychological insight, all shaped by years of inner work and practice. We are not just exploring; we are actively dismantling the stories that keep you small.
It’s not about fixing or forcing change—it’s about creating an honest container where you can hear yourself clearly, understand your patterns, and reclaim your life.
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It's not about becoming a different person. It's about becoming yourself again.
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What my clients say
I've worked with a bunch of coaches and therapists and I can say that in my session's with Ben I've made some of my biggest breakthroughs. We worked on my money mindset and went deep into the beliefs and values I'd learned as a child. I felt comfortable being vulnerable digging through some old events and Ben held space for me, guiding me to the other side.
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Ben's coaching resulted in some major insights that improved the way I see money, my business and myself. Ben is passionate and very serious about what he does and you can feel his heart is in it. I would recommend anyone work with Ben and being a therapist myself, I have high standards and Ben met them.
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Dan Ahtola
Hypnotherapist
Sweden
I've attracted more clients since our sessions and now have a better relationship with money.
Ben shared content that took me out of my comfort zone and stretched my thinking. His questions were hugely helpful to assist me to dig deeper into where I stored my association around money and success.
Money and success in my business was our topic and lack of money was my concern. Ben created a safe environment for me which allowed me to share where the pain was and with his unique coaching questions, I dug deep and found areas of myself that had been hiding my money issues.
Ben has a unique way to have you open up. He will guide you with space so that you find your own realisations that hold you back. The next step is up to you to take action and align with your goals and outcomes.
Ben is recommended highly if you have any struggles with getting unstuck, defining success, goal setting, money, lack of money or the association of money flowing to you. I am thrilled to have worked with Ben.
Janice Muir
Queensland, Australia
10/10 Would recommend! Thanks Ben!
Working with Ben has been a great help, I have spent many years talking with Psychologists from time to time when I've felt the need to discuss my challenges. Whilst these sessions have been helpful they have mainly been focused on the past not the future.
Ben has helped me continue to focus on the future and how I focus on a positive mindset and positive outcome rather than worrying about the things I can not control. Ben is empathetic but also able to call me out when I dwelling on the past and things I can't control which has been a really great help to me. I am really excited to see where the continued journey with Ben can take me in the future.
Mitch Gardiner
Brisbane, Australia
The Pathways To Working Together
A simple way to find the support that fits you!
There are a few ways to step into this work, depending on what you need right now.
The Uncovered Self Podcast
​Conversations and reflections on clarity, self-trust, money, identity, and the real work of becoming you.
This is a grounded space to listen, reflect, and uncover the hidden patterns and money stories shaping your choices.
If you want to get a feel for my voice, my approach, and how my direct yet supportive style can help you break the loop, this is a great place to start your journey.
The Mens Group: Depth Over Performance
​A dedicated space for men who want honest reflection, shared growth, and values-based conversation—without the pressure to "have it all figured out."
This group is for men who want to move beyond the superficial "mask" and break the cycle of isolation and performance:
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To do the real inner-work—the kind that goes beneath the surface and into the places we were taught to avoid.
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Depth, not performance (a space to stop "performing" success and just belong).
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Real connection over surface-level networking.
Emotional clarity and the freedom to be honest.
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To understand themselves more fully and reclaim their integrity in their lives.
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Life Coaching The Transformation Journey
For high-performers ready to move past people-pleasing, anxiety, and self-sabotage.
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If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure whatsoever next, it is because you are stuck in a story that is not your own.
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This is a grounded space for honest reflection where we slow down enough to identify the childhood loops running your life.
We will untangle those patterns so you can move through leadership changes, career transitions, and life with clarity, emotional grounding, and the confidence to be yourself again.
Financial Coaching: Numbers and Narratives
​Money is rarely just about math; it’s about safety, belonging, and the silent scripts we’ve inherited.
I provide a grounded, values-led approach that helps you untangle legacy patterns, resolve financial friction, and build a system you can actually trust.
This isn't about restrictive budgets or judgment; it’s about creating a clear, calm relationship with your numbers so you can make decisions that align with the life you are building. It’s practical, integrity-driven support that helps you build a financial life that feels as successful on the inside as it looks on the outside.
Not Sure What You Need
You don't have to know the "right" door to knock on. If you feel the pull to change your life but aren't sure where to begin, we can audit the patterns together.
This free Identity Audit tool helps you clarify what truly matters—and identify the exact loop that’s keeping you stuck—before you dive into coaching, group work, or the podcast.
How does your thinking shape your choices
Discover your Meta Dynamics™ Thinking Style Profile and gain insight into how you approach decisions — in your personal life, relationships, and professional growth.
Understand your natural patterns and strengths
Build self-awareness that supports clarity and change
Make conscious, values-led choices in everyday life
This free profile is a gentle starting point for anyone curious about how their thinking style influences their habits, goals, and relationships.
ACCESS YOUR THINKING STYLE ASSESSMENT TODAY TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP TOWARD CLARITY AND INTENTIONAL CHANGE