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Break The Loop: Reclaim Your Self trust 

​Success without self-trust is just another form of being trapped. Together, we do the deep work of untangling who you were told to be from who you actually are—turning old survival strategies into a sustainable way of living.

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A Grounded Space for Radical Change

 

​High-level success shouldn’t feel like a mask. Whether you’re navigating a promotion, burnout, or a nagging sense of disconnection, you’ve realised that despite your achievements, you’re still performing.

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I provide the straight-talking honesty and grounded support needed to dismantle the patterns shaping your life. This isn’t about fixing you—it’s about dismantling the belief that you were ever broken.

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The 90-Day Path to Emotional Steadiness

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We work through a structured, three-pillar framework to move you from pressure to peace:

  • Silence the Critic: Shift from "earning" your worth to knowing you belong.

  • Reclaim Self-Trust: Build a relationship with yourself that survives the pressure of others’ expectations.

  • Move Forward: Lead and live with a genuine, sustainable sense of belonging.

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Ways to Work With Me

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1-to-1 Coaching: The Inner Compass

This is deep, intentional work for the professional ready to stop looping and start leading with peace.

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The Transformation Journey: From Performance to Presence 

 

 

(6–Sessions): My signature 90-day container for deep identity work and lasting change.

​A bespoke 6-session partnership designed to untangle the "Silent Scripts" and reclaim your life.

 

PHASE 1: THE AUDIT (Sessions 1-2)


We slow down enough to identify the "Loop"—the external markers and survival strategies that have kept you on-guard and overcommitted.

 

PHASE 2: THE DECONSTRUCTION (Sessions 3-4)


The "inner work." We move past the mask, untangling your identity from your output and rebuilding a grounded sense of self-trust.

 

PHASE 3: THE DESIGN (Sessions 5-6)


We translate your internal clarity into a sustainable way of living, ensuring you lead your next chapter with lightness and intentional freedom.

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​The Architecture of Change (Coming Soon)

 

 

Your Self-Paced Inner Compass

 

Success requires strategy; fulfillment requires architecture. This programme helps you deconstruct the "Silent Scripts" of your past and design a value-set that is truly yours. Through guided reflection and practical frameworks, you’ll learn to lead your life with the clarity of a person who finally knows exactly who they are.

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What is your next right step?

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 If you’re tired of feeling stuck in a story that isn't yours, and you’re ready to feel light and aligned again, I’m ready to help you find your direction.

 

Don't leave without finding your inner compass. Here are three low-friction options to get started:

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Your Quickest Path to Clarity

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Book your FREE 45-Minute Unpack Session. We’ll look at your values blueprint and create a strategic pathway forward. This is the fastest way to feel unstuck.

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Expand Your Knowledge

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Not ready for a deep dive? Start by building your knowledge base. Listen to The Uncovered Self for grounded reflections on clarity, self-trust, and the real work of becoming you. It’s the best way to get a feel for my approach and start breaking the loop at your own pace.

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​Start Your Audit 


The Free Inner Compass Tool


If you’re ready to stop performing and start uncovering the "why" behind your "what," this 10-minute assessment is your first step. Discover the silent scripts running your life and start moving forward with 100% certainty.

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The Inner Compass

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The Clarity Session (One-Off):

A focused, 90-minute "loop-breaker" to untangle a specific hurdle, find immediate grounding, and identify the childhood pattern currently holding you back.
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ONE ON ONE​

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THE TRANSFORMATION JOURNEY

The Transformation Journey (6–Sessions):

 

 

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 Signature 90-Day Container for Deep Identity Work

 

PHASE 1: THE AUDIT

We slow down enough to identify the "Loop"—the external markers and survival strategies that have kept you on-guard and overcommitted. We map the stories that are no longer yours so you can stop "earning" your worth.

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PHASE 2: THE DECONSTRUCTION 

The "inner work." We move past the mask, untangling your identity from your professional output. Through honest reflection, we begin rebuilding a grounded, unshakeable sense of self-trust.

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PHASE 3: THE DESIGN 

We translate your internal clarity into a sustainable way of living. We design the boundaries and habits needed to ensure you lead your next chapter with lightness and intentional freedom.

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THE ARCHITECTURE OF CHANGE 

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Meta-Values Programme (Coming Soon)

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Build Your Inner Compass
Most high-performers are excellent at building external systems but lack an internal one.

 

This self-paced programme is the structural manual for your next chapter. It’s designed to help you stop reacting to "The Loop" and start leading from your centre.

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The Framework:

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Foundation: Deconstruct the "Silent Scripts" and survival strategies that no longer serve you.

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Clarify your Meta-Values to create a decision-making filter that is uniquely yours.

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Practical tools to reclaim your time and navigate transitions with emotional integrity.


A grounded sense of self-trust and a clear, actionable blueprint for a life that feels as good as it looks.

Frequently Asked Questions

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How do I know if we’re a good fit?


The best way to find out is to book a Discovery Call. We’ll discuss the "loops" you’re stuck in and my straight-talking approach. If it doesn’t feel like a "hell yes" for both of us, I’ll happily point you toward another resource or coach better suited to your needs.

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What is your policy on rescheduling?


I value our time together. You can reschedule any 1-to-1 session with at least 24 hours' notice. Because I hold that space specifically for you, sessions cancelled or moved within that 24-hour window are forfeited.

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Do you offer refunds if I change my mind?


Transformational work requires a high level of commitment. Once a journey or session has begun, I do not offer refunds. This policy isn’t just about business; it’s a "pattern interrupter" to stop the self-sabotage that often crops up when the work gets deep.

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What if I’m not sure which "pathway" to choose?


Start where you feel the most pull. If you want immediate, direct change, the 90-Day Transformation is for you. If you need a lower-pressure starting point, the Reflection Tool or Podcast is a great way to experience the grounded space I provide.

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Is our work confidential?


Absolutely. Whether in a 1-to-1 session or the Men’s Group, your privacy is paramount. Everything discussed is held in a secure, professional, and confidential container.

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Do you offer payment plans?


Yes. For the 6–12 session journeys and the Meta-Values programme, I offer monthly payment options to make the work more sustainable. We can discuss the specifics during your introductory call.

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If something here speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you.

You’re welcome to reach out, explore the podcast, enquire about the mens group, or start with the free reflection tool — whatever feels like the right next step.

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Let’s Connect

Phone Number: 07767 655 932    /     Email: ben@bengetleycoaching.com

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